The beginning of all relationships, be they sexual or emotional, start with a little flirting and if you want t o take an encounter to the next level you have to know….


The beginning of all relationships, be they sexual or emotional, start with a little flirting and if you want to take an encounter to the next level you have to know how to flirt well. You don’t have to be handsome or rich (although it won’t hurt) but you do need to have something unique.

Before you get started, you need to know that girls want just one thing. They want to feel like they are the centre of your universe, be that in bed or in a relationship. Paying attention to women is seductive to them and they are all hard-wired to want just the same thing. Once you know how to make them feel fantastic, you can have any women.

What women hate is… Desparate and Needy.

So what do you do to prevent yourself looking desparate and needy – this is easier than you might think.

1. Have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her eager to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.

2. Ooze confidence. If you want to be a successful flirts, you have to have a positive outlook on life. Being able to make women think that you’re not uptight and that you can take things in your stride is very attractive.  Women love confident men, but don’t be an ass.

3. Take note of what she’s wearing and complement her something you find attractive.  Women like it when men notice things about them.

4. One of the biggest flirting tips is knowing when to talk and when to listen.  In the beginning, you want to be asking her questions and then listening to the answers.  If a women thinks you find her interesting, you’ll be half way there.

5. Don’t be a jerk.  This means not getting too personal or sexual.  Flirting is about the idea of something more, it is not a downright invitation.  If you find that the ice won’t break – move on and say something nice as you go ( a quick last comment like – thanks for the chat, I kinda knew that I was batting above my league, but you really look amazing tonight)  This parting compliment can leave a great impression.

When it comes to flirting, women are all very similar.  Once you know how to push their buttons and make them feel fantastic, you can get almost any women.  First impressions are important,  but don’t rush into anything.   Flirting is about having fun and about experience, so get out there and do your thing.